The Nut-shell: 6 months into our relationship gf started talking to ex and was torn between the 2. Me and other guy are completely opposites in HER "pro’s and con’s" of us. (~ME=Loves being with me, HIM="Cant stand being with him" she says.~)
(~ME=No college and works at IHOP and a retail store, HIM=Going to college, only 2 classes a sem btw, and is a lost prevention manager for a large retail store.~)

Well now its 9 months into relationship and i thought it was over a long time ago but now here we are again, me and her ex. Told me EXACTLY what she said before. "she needs to choose between the 2 of us" and for EXACT same reasons as before…guy she likes, or guy w/ more money she doesn’t . she said its like "logic vs. heart".

Do i roll out? deserve better? is she crazy? is she right? should i give her a chance? I have strong feelings for her but dont want a women who is seemingly choosing A.) Love or B.) Money . I understand she doesnt wanna be broke but damn, i’m not worthless, lol, she actually said i’m really smart, and i really wanna go to college. But seriosuly, she’s willing to be with a guy she says "cant stand, ruins her fun, nothing in commin" because he has a smaller advantage right now to make more money. Materialistic…no thx!

Not like i think its relevant to her "logic vs. heart" but we’ve been together 9 months, her ex 2 years. GIRL= age 21, ME= age 23, EX= age 22.

You don’t sit there and wait to be chosen like a puppy in a shelter.Kick her to the curb and never look back.Always respect yourself and never submit to second best.